Would You Change Your Physical State to Please Your Partner?

“I bleach because i want to find a man who loves me.” “I bleached because he preferred her to me and so i had to become like her to get him back.” “I got bigger boobs because he prefers them big.” “Nze anjagala nga ndi brown ne bina eddene.” [He likes me brown with a big butt]. These are some of the responses we get from ladies who have altered their physical state to either become lighter or have bigger physical “assets” to please the men they are with or the men they aspire to be with.

So i ask you, “Would you change your physical state to please your partner?” Would you change the masterpiece that you are just because a man asked you to get bigger boobs or a bigger butt or become lighter because he prefers them that way? Why are women driven to such extremes to please somebody that does not appreciate their intrinsic nature? If he does not like you the way you are and you go to all sorts of extremes to get to be the person he wants, how sure are you that he will not leave the moment he finds the person who naturally befits his preferred taste and preference?

As you go about bleaching or go to extremes to alter your look, are you really happy with the outlook? Are you comfortable with the possible side effects like cancer and collapsed body parts or uneven body parts? Are you happy with the person you put to bed at night? Are yoi happy with the person who embodies your soul as you rise up in the morning? Are you really happy with you?

Yes, sometimes it is inevitable to wear a Brazillian hair piece or have your face so perfectly made up that you look like that perfect babrie doll that you so want to be like. But will you be comfortable with the person that you are when all the hair and make up is off?

Ladies and gentlemen, it is important to be happy and comfortable with the natural self that you are. And it is even better to get used to natural cosmetics and a natural way of life bevause when all the artificial things run out, nature is all we are left with.

Do not get me wrong, both men and women change who they are for their partners hiwever the common culprits are the ladies and that is why we emphasize them.

At Livara “Naturally beautiful with nature” is one of our mottos and we believe that beauty can be enhanced naturally using the basic natural elements all around us in our environments. When we love the person that we are and build that person, life has no choice but to give us the best there is from the world as it is.