For this I shall start with a disclaimer.
Disclaimer: The views expressed herein are not necessarily those of the writer. They have been amassed from a host of discussions with marrieds and singles alike.
Sex is more than just a physical mergence of bodies, it stretches deep into the spiritual realm. It is a means through which all spirits of both man and woman connect and transfer. Whatever spiritual dirt the man has accumulated from all his escapades is transfered to the woman and whatever the woman has collected from her experiences, the man gets too. Most, if not all, of these spirits are evil in nature and the consequences of which may not be immediate but will surely be felt. So from the marrieds to singles; singles to marrieds – Sex Before Marriage is being served today.
“Maxie I met this great guy two weeks ago. We had sex in the first week and suddenly I am not myself. I am filled with jealousy and irrational behaviour. I am unsettled. My jobs have suddenly been delayed or cancelled. I am not praying as frequently as I did before. Yet the people that know him closely tell me that he is the perfect guy.” This is a recent story I was told. For those that pray and have a deep connection with and understanding of the spirit forces, we understand such stories.
The act may be enjoyable and everything you both imagined and expected or even beyond. Heck, it may be so good that you just have to do it over and over again. You think about each other when apart and ravish each other when together. But the spiritual battles you have to fight thereafter, my friend, only you will tell the story.
Then of course there’s the view that one has to test and taste the “goods” before committing. Questions like these frequently arise: what if the guy has a small dick?; what if the guy is impotent?; what if it is a man dressed as a woman?; what if she is barren?; what if…; what if…?; what if…? They are endless. Of course we all have our reasons to want to eat the forbidden fruit. After all, whatever we cannot lay our hands upon seemingly looks even better and more attractive.
If I were to compare this to my #Livara products. Initially, I tell my clients that the products are good and shall achieve the desired effect. I convince them to buy the product. I however, don’t necessarily let them touch the products however they can sniff them. After sniffing them, the deal is usually sealed. They then take the products and get into bed with them and voila! They come back again and again and again. They spread the gospel about the beauty and efficacy of #Livara and bring in more customers. However, all this is because they waited to use the products until they paid cash at our counters for them. They got married before tasting the goods. And they’re hooked now!
Don’t get me wrong here, I am not Mother Theresa (God rest her precious soul) or the Virgin Mary. But many of my married friends have assured me of how it is wise to wait until he puts a ring on it.
The married men have several different views. In a deep conversation we had last night, one married man told me that “i would never have married my wife had i banged her before the wedding because that is what I always did for the rest.” Another said, “Shya, me I wanted after all we were still going to get married after.” For these two, they had a child prior wedlock and 4 years down the road, they haven’t yet conceived. The wife is now fighting the spiritual battles.
A married lady intimated that, “I had sex with other men before my wedding and I was always well but after my wedding I’m always sick. Maxie, the sexually transmitted diseases I have got in marriage only God knows!” A single lady intimated, “It always starts out just fine then we have sex, all types of sex, and I find out he is either married or has a girlfriend or he just moves on.” There’s this other single lady that just simply enjoys having sex with no attachments.
There’s another single lady and mother of three that simply wanted to have children from a particular gentleman she liked (or loved?). The man is dating a woman who knows about the children he’s had with my single friend and has been with the man since child one. Now I wonder what goes through this girlfriends mind. I failed to understand her. You are with a man, you find him when he’s just broken up with his ex. He then has child one, child two, child three and you still insist to be his girlfriend?!?! Girl friend?!?! Anyway, I’m not here to judge or take sides.
Sex before marriage is a very touchy subject but in the end let us beware of the fact that as we play around physically, the spirits are in communion and transferring all sorts of garbage into our systems. Garbage that we’ll have to expel in battles only we shall live the story to tell. So sex away, or not!